It’s Been a Journey

I know don’t usually share family-related posts, but today I’d like to share something that recently happened in my family. It’s a big reason why I haven’t been blogging for while.

First of all, I’d like to say that this has been a hard post to write. It has been a difficult journey to go through, but I feel like we’re beginning to see the light at the end of the tunnel and I’m ready to share.

Over the past few months our world has been turned upside down. You see, on October 28th my dad had a stroke. The doctors said it was technically a minor stroke, but it was still a stroke and it really affected him. We were all in shock. A few weeks prior to this stroke, we found out that he’d had a very minor one several years ago (minor enough that we were not even aware of it), but other than that he was doing really well with his health. The morning of October 28th, he had fallen at home and my mom decided to take him to their local hospital. After they determined that it had been a stroke, they decided to move him to another hospital that was more equipped for stroke victims. Thankfully, the second hospital is close to where Ricky and I live. That gave us the opportunity to see him every day and my mom was able to get some rest at our house when she wasn’t staying with my dad. He had some ups and downs during this time. He was in the hospital, then they moved to rehab, then he had to go back to the hospital, and then back to rehab. It was difficult to see him go through that, but my dad is a strong man and has been determined from the beginning to get back on his feet. Even his physical therapists have been amazed at how well he has done. And that determination paid off, because a few weeks before Christmas he was finally able to go home!

Since he has been home, he has continued to go through therapy and is continuing to get stronger every day. Even though I am not able to see him every day like I could while he was here, it is encouraging to see how he has improved each time I visit. Although this has been very difficult for all of us (my mom (especially my mom), my sisters, their husbands, and my nephews), we have all pulled together and been there for each other through every up and down. We have really appreciated the prayers, support, and encouragement from friends and family. It’s been amazing to see the love and support they have shared with my dad and our family. To those of you who have offered a kind word or a helping hand, thank you. We couldn’t do this without you. Even though he is home now, we know this journey is far from over. We’re just continuing to take it one day at a time and praying for a complete healing.

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One thought on “It’s Been a Journey

  1. My dearest Amy and my wonderful Ricky. Thank you for posting from your heart. I wanted you to know that I think about both of you and pray for you every day. Amy when your dad had the stroke I also prayed for him and your mom and still continue to do so. I understand about being so far away as I am in Colorado and would love at times to be closer to you so I could help and be there for the two of you. I cherish the times we have gotten together and are able to share and get to know each other a little better. I know how hard this has been for you because I know how close your family is and how close you are to your daddy. My continued prayer is that he continues to get stronger and that he your mom you Ricky and the rest of the family are showered with gods peace and love. Turn you anxiety and concern over to him. He is always there for you. I love you two so much.

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